Writing Your Own Wedding Vows: The Groom's Guide. Intimate, heartfelt and personal. Your wedding vows should come straight from the soul and represent just how you much you adore each other. If you’re planning to forgo tradition, and together you’ve decided that writing your own wedding vows is the right thing for you, can we just say bravo! Because that’s exactly what we would do. It’s a brave choice, but one that is so much more special, rewarding & exciting than simply reciting the standard lines. From the off though, you need to get on the same page as your...